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steelcager 61M
1996 posts
4/17/2018 8:56 am

I have had the idea of being available for dommes to "help" shape their subs, and bring something to the table, er rack.

Prior blog post update: I appear to have Scandinavian bathroom tiles!


steelcager 61M
1996 posts
4/17/2018 10:11 am

    Quoting steelcager:
    I have had the idea of being available for dommes to "help" shape their subs, and bring something to the table, er rack.

    Prior blog post update: I appear to have Scandinavian bathroom tiles!
Ahh, Henchman, love it!

It is quite possible my ancestors (from southwest and eastern Europe, a total of 5 countries with significant portions of my heritage) who liked to travel and were quite amorous, could have met the Vikings at some point in time. Quite possible!


Raven_GB 63M
854 posts
4/17/2018 1:36 pm

From a hedonistic perspective, been there, done that, but not in a BDSM context.


Master_Lance_DK

4/18/2018 5:03 am

I would like to share my slaves with the selected Tops I know will respect my requirements and conditions for handling and meeting my property.

I would like to use other people's slaves if I find them attractive and can and will accept the owner's requirements and conditions.

I would like to participate in the use of other people's slaves, and I would like to make slaves available for simultaneous / multiple use of the same slave, under the abovementioned conditions.


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
4/18/2018 2:13 pm

I have been a part of such situations. I regard this practice as a natural part of the training of submissives whose dominants are stimulated by having their subs used by another dominant while they watch, or by using her together with another dominant. I might even go so far as to say that such dominants do not regard her submission as complete unless she submits to being used by her Master's dominant friends. I regard humiliation as an important part of a sub's training and conditioning, and few things are more humiliating for a submissive than to be used by two men at the same time. Her acceptance of this experience greatly enhances her pliability and consequently her value as a treasure to her dominant.

Without the participation of another dominant, how is a submissive to be properly trained to submit to such an absolute standard of surrender? Understanding the necessity of the cooperation of another dominant to achieve this level of submission, I can't understand why a dominant would be unwilling to assist in the training of a brother dominant's submissive in this fashion... presuming, of course, that the submissive herself understood, accepted the necessity of, and therefore desired, such surrender and provided further that the activity was regarded by both dominants as just a further step in a submissive's training or, if she were already trained, a demonstration of her devotion to her Master's pleasure.


TheGentleD0M 55M
4082 posts
4/18/2018 10:36 pm

I entered the lifestyle a long time ago by going unawares to a D/s club with the chick I was dating. It turned out she liked public use and 3rd party (Dominant) direction. Many years have passed, and setting aside many philosophies that one could muster, I find that discovering a vibrant bond with a female submissive to be so rare that I have zero interest in sharing her in any way. She's mine, and I want her as much as I can have her. Life gets in the way enough. I don't need to ask others to step in between us.

( ... longer rant deleted ... )

Good luck in your excursion.


tgd


aHedonist 51M
7510 posts
4/21/2018 12:39 am

I have always separated the concept of "loyalty" from the concept of "fidelity": one I value above all else and the other means little to me.

Should my submissive/slave/bottom (if I had one) choose to engage in activities with another either with me or without - provided it's all above board (honesty - another of those traits I value) - it means little to me: at best its an adventure at worst its a fiasco. That presumes of course that it's my submissive, and that such bond overrides any particular set of circumstances. Because if she's mine, there is no question of where control ultimately lies; whether the other party is male/female/ dom/sub then becomes irrelevant.

I however, lack a submissive. So anything I say on the subject is rather suspect


Dreamcatcher__ 87M
7019 posts
4/21/2018 5:16 pm

Exhibitibi replies on 4/17/2018 12:12 pm:
There should be a proper term for that. I go with 'Henchman'.

There is a proper term for that... "Wingman."

You need to see more buddy movies


GangbangCple 73M/62F  
405 posts
4/23/2018 10:37 am

Over the last 30 years we have had many MFM 3somes with other Dom men.
I don't mind sharing , and I love to see her having a good time, esecially if it is hard and rough, it normally is,

I usually start the session, and then let ther guy, move in, sometimes we are both on her at a time, sometimes one after another, so she gets well spanked, whipped or whatever. We always try a DP too.The main thing is that she gets pain and pleasure together.After our guest has gone, I always give her another hard fucking.
Most have been one off's but the last one visited us 6 times, before he had to go home to his own country.



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