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Switch4MrRight1 57 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
What’s your favorite thing about this site! - 8/5/2018

Let me know what you think

26 response(s), 44 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Your very First time - 8/5/2018

If you could do one and only one thing differently about your first time (sex and/or bdsm ) , what would it be?

8 response(s), 9 votes
TreasuredMilf 46 C
1 question
Score 0.0
How do you handle your married Male Submissive? - 8/5/2018

My partner and I started off Flirty and it has taken on the role of play and Dom/sub. The thing is he is married. Which is fine. I knew. But I’m not wanting him to give up his secrets to his wife but not piss her off enough where she starts nagging....how do I continue trying to establish control when things are outside my hands. It’s not a set up. I’m not waiting for him to leave his ...

13 response(s), 29 votes
fredbear4 60 C
3 questions
Score 0.0
where? - 8/4/2018

is there anywhere in Melb, that we can go and have a drink and talk to people that are into the same sort of thing that we are

9 response(s), 14 votes
Sandicarr4urn 29 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Girls drinking girls urine - 8/4/2018

I just wanted to know how many other girls out there have fantasized about or actually like to drink other girls urine. How did it start and did you like it.

14 response(s), 34 votes
cuzSHEsaidto 63 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
Taboo - 8/4/2018

What taboo or taboo's would you consider as a deal breaker or possibly something to interest you in that person?

18 response(s), 29 votes
asianat2008 69 M
115 questions
Score 0.0
nipple kissing and sucking..... - 8/4/2018

In many porn clips nipple sucking and kissing are exihibited by loving partners. After kissing nipples the partners go down. What is Your lusty thoughts on them?

8 response(s), 24 votes
Switch4MrRight1 57 F
2 questions
Score 0.0
What’s your biggest pet peeve about meeting someone in person? - 8/4/2018

Does their photo not match what they look like in real life? Are they taller, skinnier, wider than what they said? Do they lack conversation skills? Did they set a date and then not even show?

35 response(s), 43 votes
SinisterBoss 54 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Vegas still a good stop? - 8/4/2018

I live about an hour from Vegas, and have met a fair share of people there from all over the country, but it seems not as many people are heading this way now. What does everyone think? Is Vegas still a hot spot for couples to come and have fun?

9 response(s), 17 votes
vicki_new 51 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Training Priorities: gags or anal - 8/4/2018

So I am going to tackle both eventually but which first and why! <br><br> Gags. I don't do well with gags. I have an aversion to having my jaw in a position the gag requires. Should I practice this away? Is it even possible? I always feel like I'm choking from the phlegm. <br><br> Anal. I haven't had anal sex. I'm not against t, but was hoping to find ...

19 response(s), 33 votes
Goodslave6354635 32 F
1 question
Score 0.0
Looking for nice looking older master - 8/1/2018

I am cool openminded slave , looking for good looking older man to live and explore my experienced with him and i need daddy.

4 response(s), 27 votes
MsSwanger 35 F
10 questions
Score 0.0
Milking ... - 7/18/2018

I have to ask , there are people on here who are not pregnant but want to be milked.. Does anyone know what it's all about? Is there some sexual feeling about it ?

6 response(s), 10 votes
subjim612 57 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Cock size, does it matter - 7/12/2018

Many women seem to be looking for large cocks, are they interest in average size at all? I know many women I've been with say they don't like large cocks because it hurts or feels uncomfortable. I'm assuming you ladies don't enjoy a micro penis either. what's the best size?

18 response(s), 35 votes
shoor2pleaseUK 76 M
3 questions
Score 0.0
Cock pix... what do women think? - 7/8/2018

I am curious to know just how interested a woman is in seeing just cock pix of a guy? I always understood that they are not especially attractive on their own but so many guys post their cocks I wondered what a woman's view is. Like or not?

16 response(s), 32 votes
cuckman 52 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Am I a sick, perverted freak? Is that a BAD thing? - 6/25/2018

Greetings. For most of my life, my sexual activity has been 'normal'. Never did I entertain any kind of fantasies that could even remotely be considered 'deviant'. And, living in ignorance of my deepest desires, I had no idea that I was missing something in my life. I felt fulfilled and happy. About 1 year ago, after watching an interracial porn flick, I started having periodic ...

3 response(s), 4 votes
MrRopeWorks 67 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Profile denied, wtf? - 6/24/2018

I did an update to my profile following which it was denied. I can't see any reason for the denial and the more I look at it the more baffled I am. I'm hoping someone can help me out and tell me what is objectionable in the update. It reads as follows; <br><br> Another update - With all this talk of master/slave, training, etc. maybe I should clarify. I really don't have ...

17 response(s), 39 votes
daz69696969 50 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
is anyone else i.m playing up today - 6/23/2018

Is anyone else's i.m playing up today ? mines been ok for a few weeks, now packed up again

7 response(s), 15 votes
balborius 59 M
1 question
Score 0.0
How come - 6/18/2018

That to them, you're just a freak, like me! They need you right now, but when they don't, they'll cast you out, like a leper! You see, their morals, their code, it's a bad joke. Dropped at the first sign of trouble. They're only as good as the world allows them to be. I'll show you. When the chips are down, these... these civilized people, they'll eat each other. See, ...

13 response(s), 36 votes
vicki_new 51 F
5 questions
Score 0.0
Auditions and first meetings? - 6/15/2018

I have met a few doms on this site - not at the same time, but reading the responses to a different question got me thinking... how many is too many? I haven't found the right Dom - either I wasn't what they wanted or our limits didn't match or any number of things. When someone looks at my profile I don't want them to think I am meeting everyone at once. I really meet someone and give it a ...

22 response(s), 56 votes
curious_subNSC 70 M
5 questions
Score 0.0
Ladies watching men - 6/14/2018

Ladies do you enjoy watching and or directing 2 men together. Either in real time , on cam or in movies? If so what would you like to watch them do or direct them to do?

10 response(s), 38 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Back to vanilla to bdsm ? - 6/14/2018

Did you ever swear off the alt/bdsm lifestyle after a bad experience or relationship and decided to settle for a more traditional vanilla relationship, only to find out you really couldn't and ran back to alt/bdsm ?

6 response(s), 18 votes
daz69696969 50 M
2 questions
Score 0.0
is anyone else having messenger issues - 6/13/2018

Hi is anyone else having messenger problems ?

16 response(s), 28 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Does dressing up for your roll help in the roll you play? - 6/7/2018

when your in play mode with your active partner/partners how important is it to you to dress the part?, does it help you play your part better.? does it help you get into your roll easier?

3 response(s), 3 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
Respect - 5/31/2018

In most relationships, mutual respect is a key factor in the success of that relationship. Would you say that in a Dom/sub relationship, its more or less and why?

5 response(s), 7 votes
diavoloslave 62 M
9 questions
Score 0.0
She said i changed her???? - 5/16/2018

I am just a guy that is very playful and like to have fun when i am serving, i recently ran in to long past lady who i had a session with and had a great time with. She seemed to be very playful as well. We sat down to have a coffee to get caught up with each others activities, this when she said to me that i changed her as she doesn't have fun with most that she plays with and she gets to ...

14 response(s), 22 votes
wantingD 65 M
6 questions
Score 0.0
Points - 5/16/2018

I've been a member here for a pretty long time and I used to have a lot of points but now they're gone. Does anyone know what's up with that? Thank You!!

22 response(s), 33 votes
clye22 63 M
1 question
Score 0.0
how does one clean out for anal sex - 5/16/2018

how does one clean out for anal sex

7 response(s), 15 votes
sub2younow 62 M
1 question
Score 0.0
Profile pics - 5/9/2018

Just a quicky...guess that's why I am denied orgasm... Anyone else having their photos disappear? Was there one minute and then just a gif.

16 response(s), 29 votes
LuvPinkTaco 46 M
11 questions
Score 0.0
Nudism on the East Coast - 5/8/2018

Have you been to any nudist beaches or camps on the eastern seaboard ? Which s did you prefer and would recommend ?

14 response(s), 31 votes
TimidJaneCD 62 T
16 questions
Score 0.0
Cam watcher delights - 5/4/2018

What would you like tto see someone on cam do for your entertainment ? What cam action excites you ? What cam action turns you off ?

12 response(s), 28 votes